Success.
It’s such a provocative topic we like to argue over the meaning of it. We seek it. We’re scared of it. Many of us sabotage it because we don’t feel we deserve it.

Crazy, huh?
You should be thankful for where you are right now or you’ll never be successful.
You can take that to the bank.
That’s also the secret!
Many of us certainly debate it in our heads. We think that success is one thing and we work hard trying to achieve that one thing only to find out we’ve completely missed the boat.
How did we achieve this one thing and still end up feeling or being unsuccessful?
Countless movie scripts are written about it but still, we don’t seem to get it.
Why won’t it sink in?
I guess it’s because the idea of success is easier to sell as a destination.
And believe me, they’re selling it.
You’ve seen the guy giving a speech in front of a Lamborghini and he says, “If I can do it, you can do it too.â€
We tour their houses on MTV Cribs.
We’re green with envy over what they wear on the red carpet during awards shows.
That’s compelling.
That’s good TV.
But are they successful?
These shows, inject into our brains the suggestion that success is a person, place, or thing. We get indoctrinated into their definition of success. They decide what it looks, feels, sounds, smells and tastes like.
But that’s a lie designed to sell products and TV ads.
What this concept decidedly DOESN’T do is help to make anyone successful.
Isn’t that interesting? I’m saying that the “success†they’re selling us not only isn’t success, it’s the exact opposite.
They’re telling us to focus on all the wrong things!
Mind. Blown.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking about money. I believe in making money. I believe we live in abundance. Everyone can make plenty of money if-and-when they want to.
There is plenty to go around. I’ve mentioned this before, for one person to get rich doesn’t mean someone else goes without. This is a lie that helps to sell the first lie.
The concept of limited resources and happiness is pushed on us because it sells something different than ads and products, it sells votes.
So, what is success?
Success is what you do every single day. Success is consistency, humility, and gratitude. You have to get a little smarter every day.
It happens in 1% increments.
Focus on the base hits and one day you’ll look up to see an incredible number on the scoreboard.
Success is NOT one destination.  It’s not one thing.
Just ask Harvey Weinstein. I think that prior to last month, EVERYONE would equate Harvey Weinstein with success. Even his victims. It took them forever to come out because they perceived he was successful and could offer it to them. Or worse, keep it from them.
Weinstein was rich and powerful.
But as it turns out he is also miserable. Isn’t this the opposite of success?
PLOT TWIST. His “success†was a fallacy. Smoke and mirrors. A true Hollywood illusion.
Weinstein is unsuccessful because he failed to be consistent about his health. I promise you his sickness is a result of his self-image. Harvey thinks he’s disgusting. Maybe a girl told him he was ugly at a vulnerable moment when he was growing up and it deeply damaged him. I’m pretty sure he thought all females owed him a favor for something. He wanted payback.
In his mind, he was settling a score.
Bottom line is that Weinstein hates himself. He always has. If he regularly attacked the source of the pain, through personal growth and introspection, he could’ve found some positive solutions. He would’ve discovered that true pleasure was never found in breaking the spirits of those actresses. No different than a heroin addiction, I suppose.
He lacked humility. You can’t be grateful and wicked at the same time.  
But Weinstein confused the truth with fantasy so this character flaw turned him into an evil monster.
Now, all his money and power can’t save him. Thus, he’s clearly NOT successful, is he?
How about Kevin Spacey? Last month he was successful and now he’s banished forever. Netflix has completely dropped his hugely successful series. Ridley Scott pulled him from a movie that is still promised to be delivered in one month. They’re re-shooting his parts with a new actor. His power evaporated in a brilliant flash of light and his money will soon follow.
Kevin preyed on little boys. It was no big secret in Hollywood. It’s just sickening that it took the Weinstein controversy to prove to the oppressed that anyone can be taken down, no matter how powerful they may seem.
But I like it. I want to get some popcorn and watch this all unfold. It’s long overdue.
One minute he’s one of the most successful and talented actors we have and the next minute it’s all gone. If you’ll forgive the pun, Spacey’s success was a house of cards. Another deception to the public.
Success isn’t trickery. It’s real. But it’s not a thing or a place, rather it’s what you do every day.
Delusional broken souls happen in every field, by the way, not just Hollywood.
I have a dear friend who was married to an anesthesiologist for 17 years. She’s a high-ranking nurse working towards PH.D. in medicine who married the doctor. They have two gorgeous teenage girls and the big doctor house with the big doctor pool.
But he’s miserable and he’s a narcissist. He hasn’t done one ounce of work on himself and he got lost a long time ago.
From the outside, it looks amazing. But the reality is he’s a raging alcoholic, in debt (living paycheck-to-paycheck on $700k per year), and he’s addicted to opiates.
He’s a degenerate by all definitions. A degenerate with a nice paycheck and rich friends, but a degenerate nonetheless.
She’s held the family together for almost 2 decades, but at the expense of her own happiness. For almost 2 decades!
Then she had an epiphany. This isn’t success at all.Â
They’re getting a divorce. The plot twist here is that according to the societal messages divorce is a failure. But by divorcing she’s on her way to becoming successful. She’s realized that he wasn’t there for her physically or emotionally and she’s changing that.

I believe she is now moving towards consistency because she knows the truth. Success isn’t a destination. It’s not a picture in a magazine, a car, or a house.
Rather success it what happens every day of your life.
Success is a ritual. A way of living regardless of the money or the status.
Sheryl Crow said success is “not having what you want but wanting what you got.â€
It’s connecting meaningfully with your significant other every day.

Taking the time to connect with your kids is real.
The little moments are what counts. The work you do to help others and yourself. That’s success.
It’s loving the daily process. The achievement is an inevitable byproduct of the consistent effort that is put in over time.
You make money by accident when you’re successful. Maybe not big money, but enough money.
Every life and I mean EVERY life has many emotional and financial peaks and valleys. That’s a given, as sure as death and taxes.
The truly successful create light and distribute it.
They lift people up, teach, and they add value.
But there are people that get their energy from other people.
They’re wretched souls. Evil. Misguided. You could even say lazy.
Recognizing these kinds of people regardless of their “successes†is paramount to your own happiness and success.
Fight the good fight.
Do good work.
Spend time improving yourself. Be intentional about it. You can be Mother Teresa, but if you don’t take care of yourself you won’t be truly successful.
Help other people.
Deliberately connect with those close to you on a regular basis.
The success will fall into place in-spite-of the speed bumps, pitfalls, and life catastrophes. Don’t worry about the setbacks so much because they keep coming. Setbacks are a part of success.
The most successful people will tell you they’ve failed more than they’ve succeeded.
I promise.
I want you to win.
Stay.
In.
Tune.






Good art finds its own audience. If it’s truly special, you just need to put it up on iTunes, Spotify, Pandora, etc. and people will catch on. They’ll find it without marketing.
Beatles – You can’t argue with 600 million records sold! FYI, the bottom rung of “superstar status†begins around 20 million records. So, it’s safe to say they’re at the top of that food chain. The Beatles music was so amazing the word-of-mouth spread like wildfire. Yes, Brian Epstein (their manager) cleaned up their look, created the image and taught them to bow after every song (adorable!). Epstein sent girls out, in the beginning, to purchase Beatles records at record stores that reported sales so the Beatles would chart. The charting changed the perception of the radio Program Directors and the DJ’s. Because the singles seemed more legit, the PD’s started spinning them more. “Yesterday†has the third most performances ever on American radio and TV with over 7 million spins. Let’s not forget that 73 million people watched the Beatles on The Ed Sullivan Show in 1964. But they didn’t need the exposure from radio or TV, they were the Beatles. They would’ve sold 600 million no matter what, right?
Andrew Loog Oldham, was Brian Epstein’s former assistant. Oldham changed the image of his band making them the “anti-Beatlesâ€. That meant their image was dangerous as opposed to boys you could take home to mom. He created a new “lane†in the market. Then Oldham implemented the same chart strategy that was effective in legitimizing the Beatles. The Rolling Stones were exposed to millions of people via radio and The Ed Sullivan Show alone. But we all know how good The Rolling Stones are. They didn’t need any of that promotion. The music would’ve found its own audience just like yours will.
this act. Their sophomore release, High & Dry, got the ball rolling in America. “Bringing on the Heartbreak†became a high rotation video on the relatively new MTV. This spurred a massive increase in radio spins as well. All that love only sold 250,000 copies but set the stage for their third release. This groundbreaking Mutt Lange production spawned 4 radio singles. Polygram easily spent millions promoting this record with the videos and radio promo, but all this exposure really didn’t matter. Pyromania was awesome, consumers were going to tell everybody about it anyway. The art was so good, Phil Lynott, leader of Thin Lizzy, broke up his band. He told Joe Elliott, the lead singer of Def Leppard, he couldn’t compete with Pyromania. That’s how good it was, so they really didn’t need to be the darlings of MTV with 5 videos. They really didn’t need the exposure from the radio spins.
Guns & Roses – Everybody knows who GNR is. Their first release, Appetite for Destruction, has sold 30 million copies. It became the best-selling debut ever and the 11th best-selling record in the United States. Appetite had 5 singles and 5 MTV videos to support the singles. But the record was released July 21, 1987, and didn’t break for a full year later in August of 1988. How’s that? This record was so good nobody cared about it for the first year? I’m sure the phone call from label head David Geffen to MTV applying pressure to finally play the “Welcome to the Jungle†video didn’t matter. It would’ve broke no matter what, right? It was just a matter of time.
sold. Every record the Jackson 5 released went multi-platinum. Side-note: It’s interesting that when they left Motown for Epic Records, they had to change their name to The Jacksons as Motown owned the name Jackson 5. It’s even more interesting that these famous household names only managed to sell 500,000 copies each on the first 2 releases following the moniker alteration. You could argue that the market didn’t know The Jacksons were the Jackson 5. But they were famous and the music was great, so the consumers would figure it out. Michael was also signed to a solo deal. His first solo release for Epic was Off the Wall and it sold more than 20 million copies worldwide. Then, of course, Thriller was released which sold more than 110 million copies worldwide. To this day, Thriller remains the best-selling album of all time. They released 7 singles. I’m quite sure that the tens of millions of dollars they spent promoting the radio singles and the unforgettable videos wouldn’t have mattered. The music is so good it would have sold no matter what.
America. Why was that? Clearly, they were amazing! You could argue they wasted millions on videos and a tour in Communist China to break into America because clearly, the art would break through eventually. It was that good, right? Then George went solo and his first record entitled Faith sold 20 million. He was famous so of course, it did, right? When his second solo release dropped his label CBS Records was purchased by Sony and George wasn’t happy with the situation. He rebelled and new Sony America President, Tommy Mattola, sat on the record in retaliation. By this time, George Michaels was a superstar with almost 50 million records sold. Listen Without Prejudice Volume 1 failed miserably in sales compared to Faith. Critics and fans hailed George’s 2nd solo effort as his artistic masterpiece. But it must’ve been the music, right? The music must have been of a lesser quality to the fans because they all knew about the record, right? How else would you explain the decline in sales when it’s all about the music? He didn’t need to market either. George was a superstar.
for Casablanca Records within one year and nothing took off. In fact, they almost sunk the label. Then the fourth release was Alive! and that did the trick. Kiss was on their way. The live record consisted of songs off the first three records. The audience sounds were the only “live†performances from Alive!. It was completely re-recorded in the studio because the musical performances were terrible. Here is a PRIME situation proving that marketing doesn’t matter when the songs are great. They had already released the music before and it failed. Then the fans liked the live version. No marketing necessary, the fans decided, right?
Carrie prior to her American Idol appearances, she looked plain. Now she looks like a star. Why would she do that? It’s all about the art, right? It’s all about her voice. Why change the look? Oh, let’s also remember that she came into the public awareness singing covers in front of a TV audience of over 30 million people every week. But I’m sure THAT had nothing to do with her rise to fame because her voice and look were so powerful. What AI really did was make some famous music producers aware of her talent. Once they recorded her the art took over and Carrie was on her way. No promo necessary.
Like Carrie, she was singing covers for 9 weeks to a huge TV audience. This exposure gained her an audience and the interest of Sony Records. They signed her and released her first single. Sony, of course, went to work getting the art and the artist in front of as many people as possible and it worked. The rest is history. Miranda, in my opinion, is one of the true artists on the planet. I’m sure she would’ve broken no matter what. No marketing necessary.
Yes, Shelton had great songs but they became staples on the radio. His star rose higher when he started making regular TV appearances as a judge on Nashville Star in 2007 as well as The Voice which he’s been on since its inception. But all the fame and radio spins don’t matter, Blake would still be famous without them. When you’re that good you don’t need to market. You don’t need exposure because your audience will do it for you.






rket disruption in the same way that EVERY other industry has. The creators will do business directly with the end-users.
When the industry embraces this reality the creator’s revenue will increase as high as 170x. Take what you made last year from your streams and downloads and multiply that by 170.
It was originally developed for the digital currency Bitcoin which has expanded to a value of over 9 billion dollars. However, the massive applications for anything of value, like music, are exploding into the marketplace.
Have you ever noticed that you can upload your interpretation of a cover song to YouTube and get exposure but if you do it directly to Facebook they’ll take it down?
canvas. You can create any kind of customer experience you like. There are 47,000 different companies and technologies that orbit around WordPress in the form of plug-ins that enhance the user experience as well as the back-end analytics for the creator. The ability to create a killer up-to-date website lies solely in your hands to do for yourself or outsource to a developer.
For instance, get the first song free but if you want to hear the rest of the record you either buy now or watch this commercial.
Here’s the killer takeaway.
honored to be asked to be a mentor.




Every night is different. My band was always prepared to continue whatever groove was going on during our shows. You never knew what was going to happen.
He said, don’t come up to me and give me a CD because I’ll tell you “No†to your face. I don’t know you so I don’t care.
If the video continues to gain enough momentum to ring the second bell, YouTube hits another multiplier button and so on.

11 million followers on Instagram.








Get THAT through your head.

But you must choose a path.












The hardest part will be committing to the discipline of these little tricks but it’s a game changer.









I just had a reunion of sorts with a guitar player friend of mine who played with me in a solo project I did for a hot second in LA. I met him at a restaurant bar. The bartender was an artist I was doing a little producing for. We talked and I mentioned I was looking for a guitar player. I left him a CD of some tracks. He called me on my way home and was like, “I’m IN!â€














We must also LEARN to be self-aware about our art. Your mother will love it no matter what, so you’re foolish if you run with only that opinion. I think of the horrific zero-talent wannabes at the beginning of every American Idol season. Wow, it’s like so many people lied to them or something.


Step one was the band had to move to Florida. We walked toward the light with nothing but each other and promise from this dude to help us get to the next level. There were no promises of an outcome and zero promises of cash. We were on our own.
Then I saw Warren Haynes play guitar in the studio during the first of what would be hundreds of hours of access to the band. At that moment, a nuclear bomb was dropped on my ego and my sense of accomplishment.
Because every artist has boatloads of challenges.







Of course, that was when people were listening to the radio.
We can do all that from a laptop on our couch.

He had the power to do that because they wanted his business so badly. He made himself sexy to the labels and it was about his business, not the art.

Do you want to be the artist like Granger who comes in with all the power to craft your deal into a blessing?
The size of your audience will determine your future and how the big-wigs are going to play with you.
Choosing to suffer through learning the crap you don’t want to learn about marketing right now means you’ll be more educated tomorrow. It means you won’t be naïve. It means you’ll be driving. It means you’ll be sexy for the right reasons. Oh, and it also means nobody gets to tell you how to make your art. So, there’s that.